Reason. Season. Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. 

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty; to provide you with guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die.  Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. 

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it.  It is real.  But only for a season. 

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

AUTHOR: UNKNOWN

http://lifelessons4u.wordpress.com/2009/03/01/are-you-a-reason-a-season-or-a-lifetime/

“Life is like an elevator: on your way up, sometimes, you have to stop and let some people off.” -Unknown

Summer

Ron's shot of the Snake Island in Puerto Prinsesa 2010July

Oh yeah Summer it is. With the scorching heat outside, with your friends posting links, photos, status updates about going to the beach and all that, with all those exciting yet stressful plans of going to wherever, who wouldn't be amused and thrilled about summer, right?


I don't have solid plans yet on how I'm gonna spend my summer. Yeah I have one lined up - that's our company outing on the 21st. What makes me look forward to it is the fact that I'll go there with other committee members a night before the actual and the fact that I'll get to bond with my dear VMS family.


Hmmm, given that I have a crazy schedule and a not-so-funny budget, I don't think this image below is possible..

i wanna fly again

If someone can treat me for a beach date, why not? Haha. But for now what I want is for my best friend and I to push through with our best friend day at the beach. When? Ewan. :p

Puerto Galera February 2009

Or aha, maybe I can just bring myself to anywhere...like what I did before..hmmmmm.. ♥

BAGS

I am no branded. I go for whatever is cute and affordable. Something that would add to my mini collection of bags. Something that would make me stay true to my promise of not wearing the same bag twice in a week or two. Yes. That's my kaartehan. I'm not into make-ups, travel, etc. I just love to have bags of any kind. I have all the basic/common colors I believe. But feel free to add more, gimme please? Hehe.


I just thought of posting it because they said, it's a prized possession. I tried to check the value of my 40+ bags in the condo, and there, it amounted to almost 75k to date. Super cheap coz I'm not into collecting those 5k up bags. I'm not crazy and I don't have the luxury to do so. Hehe.


Pardon my being a girl. I just love seeing them.It makes me feel giddy.♥

Now, tell me, are these stuff not a reason to somehow feel giddy?♥

Fan Girl

i think everyone has been an avid fan of someone/something once in their lives. i've been an avid fan to basketball players. you have no idea how a basketball game can affect my mood 12 years ago. hehe. i even got into a mini-fight with sampalan blues with Ronald Estrada just because he said 'tanga si Bal David' wahahaha.

yess naman nakapost sa cabinet ko..wahahaha

Ralph Emerson Rivera - Former San Beda Red Lion and Batangas Blades player.. Nyahahahaha :p

go renren ko..haha

ANSABE NG WALL POST NI RENREN? hehehe

The following pictures are photos from the Kobe Bryant Manila Tour 2009. I can't believe I saw him in person after almost a decade of loving him. Nyahahaha. Haters will always hate. I can't make you guys love him. I can only show you why a lot can't beat him. Sabee? Nyahahaha :D

And finally my over a decade collection of Kobe NBA Cards :P

Now tell me, sino ang Fan Girl?? Nyahahahaha :D

never a foe

whenever i get to see your posts full of emotions, i can't help but wonder and be sad. he may be the world's greatest jerk and  the all time liar, but he was not lying when he told me he never saw himself with you; a future with you..marrying you. if only i can post here all the things that he and i talked about.. everything about the future..our future.


i know we never had the things you and him had..and you've been with him almost half of your lives..but did you really ask if those past years are worth your pain and sacrifices today and in the next few years of your lives? do you want to just feel his pity of not leaving you because of your kid? 


i don't know. i can't tell. i may not be in the position to tell. he may have fooled me or threw shit on me, he may have been the jerkest jerk in my life, but he was not fooling everybody when he said he's not married to you as oppose to what you've been declaring to the world.


if there's one thing he never lied about, that is the fact that he'd rather live alone than be with you for the rest of his life. i have a proof, but i will not post it..its just a chat and email, i know. 


just have your life back. give yourselves a chance to grow without each other. let go of him NOT for me, but let go of him for yourself, for him, and for your kid.


i may not be your friend, but never did i want to be your foe. this is a sincere message from my heart. 

Narcissism

Narcissism

 Hehe.. This is my page, if it irritates you, hover your mouse pointer on the upper right hand then click X (PC users) or the upper left portion then  click X (MAC users). Oha, very specific. That's because I know one of you, readers, are a Mac user. Grabe pag tinamaan ka dito, confirmed na talaga. You can't live without checking on me. Nyahaha :p


Pictures, yes especially my pictures, make me happy and giddy. For some reason, it makes a bad day turn into a good one. Ewan, baka ako lang talaga yan. Hehe.

smile :D

BF ♥

I so miss my ever loving BoyFriends: Bryan and Francis. Meron ba kayong kaibigan na tulad nilang dalawa? Ang swerte ko kasi ako meron. ♥

Bilang wala naman talaga akong OFFICIAL-YUNG NAKIKITA NG LAHAT-BOYFRIEND, sila ang naging boyfriend ko for almost a year. Best in ghost story kasi yung recent flame ko eh. Yesss flame,  lakas maka-apoy nyahahahaha. Sila ang nagpapamper at nang-sspoil saken, sa mga arte at angal ko, sa mga demands and sungit ko, sa mga lambing at pang-aasar ko..and most of all, sa lahat ng mga pang-hahaggard at pag-mamando ng mga buhay nila. Hehe. 

Miss ko na ang mga pang-aasar nyo saken, miss ko na ang pagsasabi nyo na sina manong guard and friends lang ang market ko..ang pagsasabi nyo saken na wala akong taste sa guys talaga, yung mga pagpapaganda ko pero wit ko pa din makuha ang market kasi kayo ang bet shet. 

Miss ko na ang pagsasabi nyo ng mabuti about me..i know naman cute na cute kayo saken..nyahahahaha. Miss ko na pagpapakain nyo saken talaga...waaaaahhh...super miss ko na kayong dalawa pakshet kayo. Nyahahaha

Best in non-sense tong blog na'to but I want you guys to know na gusto ko naman mag-hagaran tayo ulit..aba last month pa yata yung last bonding nating 3 ah..board meeting nato dammit!!

I LOVE YOU BRYAN JAMES AND FRANCIS ANGELO. I REALLY HOPE TO BE WITH YOU GUYS AGAIN. LIBRE NYO KO. NYAHAHAHAHAHA. KIDDING ASIDE, I MISS YOU GUYS..it makes my heart cry.

foodtrip with franceska elena hehe :p http://instagr.am/p/HYSkaiJmY_/

thanks for dropping by! iloveyou bryan :) http://instagr.am/p/HaqC36pmcu/